gravity

what is the thing which pulls us towards someone ? what is that force called ? gravity ? no , its the physical force which pulls 2 objects towards each other , im talking about the emotional force ... why does it exist . why does it feel so bad when someone you are most attached to leaves ? can the most advanced of technologies .. bio informatics , nano technology and blah explain this phenomenon . if they can , they better come out with a solution for this , because i am suffering :/ , i always used to say "ha ! yeah right , its all a big emotional drama" , but when you go through it yourself , you are as screwed as anyone can be .in my case the emotional gravity defied the laws of physics and one object became neutral to the force. it felt like my armor had been taken off just when I was about to face my biggest enemy , the fear of failure and I had to fight the battle alone . it absolutely ripped my defenses apart , because the jupiter of my solar system went missing just when the asteroids of trouble entered it . im trying to be as strong as I can be , but the trouble is that I miss my moon :(